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Jul 21 2017, 08:20
  • Chris71 Newbie

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    I am a female 45 years young and have been involved with someone who I believe is a narcissist. I sent them a Facebook message days ago telling them they are dumped and why. I blocked them. I am so fed up with their games and lack of empathy. This narc was emotionally abusing me and starting to get physical with me, pinching my breast until bruised.

    I am not going on the trip with our mutual group next month. The narc sees me as easy prey. This narc was respectful to 1 older lady he gravitated to, who has since passed on. He likes Latinas and looks @ their faces. He only looks @ what is between my legs with me. My photos were zapped on his Facebook he posted but these other women's photos remained. He does not care and does not want to hear about it. He kept saying that is the past but does nothing to fix it now.


    When I see this narc he says he missed me and loves me for a short time. Than soon after he starts up mistreating me, and freezing me out ignoring my texts and calls. He says he is claiming my sexual areas but he will not claim me as a person. He told people we are friends. He rarely compliments me like he does other Spanish women. He says I imagine this and he knows many people, so these are all his friends. He hit on another Facebook women after I helped him find a lawyer when he got hurt. He ignored me. The narc has gone off with a female in front of me and was nice to them with no pinching and grabbing. In front of people I am Christine in private baby. He says he keeps his personal life private. I am not allowed as his Facebook friend anymore.

    He is controlling and often said to shut up and shush. This narc told his Facebook family he was engaged. Word got back to me. A friend pushed it in my face making me feel horrible. I asked the narc man prior to this if he was done with me. He said he would not say that but ignored my texts and calls. He never gave me closure but met some stranger and got engaged and disengaged soon after.

    I have to work on moving on and made my own closure as for the affair ending. It is so hard. I have no family support around me. I see a therapist once a month who feels this is codependency and agrees I am addicted. I feel I have been addicted. I liked the sex I had with the narcissist. Now I see him more like the devil. This narc degraded and exploited me.