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Oct 17 2013, 15:46
  • So this is my first post on this site, and I don't know if this is the right place for this kind of question but I really need help right now.

    Basically what's going on is I'm a 21 year-old, good looking, male virgin; every time I've been with a girl (7 times? I dunno, around there) I've been too nervous to get an erection, and if I see one more girl with that look of pity, disappointment and sudden realization that she doesn't want to be with me any more I... I dunno.

    I don't know what to do. I've asked a doctor, and talked to a friend of mine, and they just looked puzzled, told me that I'm "in the prime of my life, and that this shouldn't be a problem", and that I "just needed to be confident".

    I don't know if I'm secretly gay, or watch too much porn, or am just a nervous wreck or what but I don't know what to do. I feel worthless and depressed, and just don't see any way out.
  • Abdu Newbie

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    Oct 31 2013, 04:42
    Hi Friend,
    Sure you have good life ahead, don't be upset. You don't have any physical issue rather than anxiety and fear. If you need any support from my side feel free to contact me
  • youdontknow13 Contributor

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    Dec 20 2013, 22:43
    There's nothing wrong with you maybe you just haven't found the right lady who exicites you in the way that you need to be. Don't be so hard on yourself if I could go back in times I would have saved that experience as long as I could yeah you may be in your prime but don't feel pressured into doing anything that you are not ready for just because everyone around you has done. Only you can pinpoint when you are ready for that.

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