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Self Esteem & Shyness

May 31 2018, 17:53
  • Sarah Newbie

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    Hello. My name is Sarah and I'm having issues with myself. I worry about what others think of me and how I look. I want yo exercise, but I feel like I still wouldn't be attractive enough. I'm an introvert and I've tried to change by being someone else, talking to strangers, but it comes out awkwardly every time. No one seems to like me and I try to socialize. I fear I may be boring to them, which means zero relationships will happen. I'm African American, so I also have a complex about that. Are lighter-skinned/fair-skinned races more attractive when it comes to dating? Am I too dark to be loved? I have good education, a good sense of honesty, and concern for others. Why am I not desirable? Am I ugly or unattractive because I don't want to be alone. I want a partner who will care about me apart from my physical appearance. I have a Tinder and matched with two people.....but I don't think she'll like me in person since I'm actually shy. We set out to go to the patrk this weekend, but she's actually pretty. I'm not and makeup doesn't help. Asm I too desperate for her? Will anyone ever want me?

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