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Oct 25 2016, 15:47
  • Juniper32 Newbie

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    So, this is kind of a two part thing. I have had 2 miscarriages in the past 10yrs. The most recent was February of 2015 with my current partner. Since this happened, I have had an increasingly hard time getting aroused. Every time he brings up sex, I get extremely anxious, sometimes to the point of panic and immediately shut him down. Now, he is a saint and has been very supportive, but he is frustrated and I don't blame him. I'm frustrated. I think I'm so worried that I might get pregnant and lose the baby again, that even the thought of having sex terrifies me. We've been together for 2.5 years, and are now planning to move out of state together, away from both of our families and we have to get this figured out before we go. Otherwise I am scared that once we go, if things don't change, he'll leave me. Has anyone else had this kind of experience? What can I do? We've tried several different avenues, but all of them have just made me feel awkward and forced, which brings up even more issues that I don't want to get into. Help?
  • donjaf Contributor

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    Nov 6 2016, 03:50
    Hi Juniper32,
    I hope it's working out.

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