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Jealous of my mother in law???

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Apr 10 2012, 02:37
  • Alessandra Helpful Friend

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    i am living with my mother in law for 9 months and recently, I thinkong that my husbando talks more with his mom that with me,when he comes home he sits o the sofa and talks no stop with his mom and if i am in the room he talks with me too once she live to the bedrom he starts yaning and soon go to bed living me by alone watching tv,I also find out that he said something to his mom and the both of them decide hide from me,I end out fiding out later and asked him to rent an appartament for us.Am I right or just being jealous of my mother in law?
  • Alessandra Helpful Friend

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    Apr 13 2012, 00:49
    well as nobody want to say anything about this post I will say what happened today,I got in a fight with my husband this evening and his mom decided to interfere,she spoke very nasty and abusive with me,also told me to get out of her house and my husband said the same.I have no place to go,she asked me in some point if I was a christian I would not fight with he son,and I told her if she was also a christian she would not put me out of her house.The argument was going on and on both of them against me.After a while we calmed down,I went to my bedrom then she called me and apologize crying.Well It was very humilliating for me what they did to me.Thank God we are moving out of her house on monday.
  • jaelle Contributor

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    Apr 29 2012, 11:28
    If your husband and his family are Christians, they should understand what "Leave and Cleave" means. He is choosing to keep his mother happy at the expense of your happiness, which is not healthy. It's a good step that you are moving out of her house, because living with a mother in law like that tends to make issues even worse than they would be otherwise.
    • Alessandra Helpful Friend

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      May 3 2012, 01:00
      Hi jaelle,thank God my husband decided to listen to me and it has been almost 2 weeks that we are living in a very nice appartment.If we did not have moved out from his mom's house,today would be a separated woman.By the way what does "leave and cleave means" lol.
      Thanks jaelle.
      • jaelle Contributor

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        Aug 9 2012, 20:23
        Hello Alessandra, I hope things are still going well for you. Leave and cleave has to do with a passage in the Bible that states that when a man takes a wife he leaves his mother and cleaves to his wife. Meaning, his loyalty lies with his wife over his mother once he becomes married.
        • Alessandra Helpful Friend

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          Aug 16 2012, 23:47
          Hi Jaelle,the cituation got worse since my last log in here.I can't believe I am going throuth this nightmare.After all the abuse from my husband.He set me up.He send me jail.I lived a hell for 3 days in jail.After that He put a no contact order on me.He is the crazy one,bipolar.Now we are separated,Its over now for sure!Sometimes I cry,I cant believe this is happening.

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