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Sep 28 2018, 14:47
  • Kali Newbie

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    After a really weird breakup I decided it was best for me to give up on relationships and grow. I spent months building the best version of myself i have ever known. I was no longer focused on my flaws and insecurities. My confidence was up, and was self esteem was at an all time high. I didn’t feel like I needed a relationship. I was happy and I was my own source of happiness.

    Before I grew myself I was a person who always wanted and needed to be in a relationship. It was a must for me to be in one, but after those months I realized that I didn’t really need a relationship and I didn’t want one unless it felt right.

    Every guy who talked me didn’t last long at all. I held no interest and couldn’t talk to them for longer than two weeks before I felt as though it just wasn’t right. Until a month ago.

    I met this guy and it felt perfect! Two weeks in and I wanted to talk him every day all day. He said he wanted a relationship with me and that he wanted me to be his girlfriend but out of nowhere he stopped talking to me. Now I know I should just move on and forget but for some reason it’s hard. I don’t understand why but it’s taking a while to want to move on. I mean it was only a month but I wanted it to last longer. I wanted to be his happiness, peace, love, and world.

    I know I need to move on because it’s going on two weeks since we had a real conversation, but I don’t want to. I just want someone to talk to about this who has maybe been through a similar thing who can help me get over and move on.

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