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Apr 15 2017, 13:22
  • Carolyn62 Newbie

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    I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now but other girls are always messaging me and sending me pictures of my boyfriend trying to get nudes from them. I love him and I don't want to break up with him even though I know that's the right thing to do. I know he loves me too and him doing this is only sexual and he doesn't have feelings for any of these girls. I planned a future with him and don't want to break up but I don't know how to get him to stop or what other options I have. Half the time he won't even admit it, he admits to talking to other girls in the past but lately he denies it still even if I have pictures of the conversation. What should I do
  • cpriest27 Newbie

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    Apr 23 2017, 01:30
    Hey Carolyn, I'm sorry that you're going through that with your boyfriend. It can't be an easy thing to deal with especially after a bit over a year long relationship. I understand not wanting to break up with him after so long, but from what you've said here, that would seem like my only option if I was in your shoes. I know it's a lot easier to give advice than to take it, but I'm sure if you decide to leave, that you will find someone who won't do things like that, and you can plan that future :)
  • Eight08jason Newbie

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    Sep 12 2017, 23:58
    Ya I would agree, I'm s guy. If I'm asking nudes and messaging other girls then that's pretty clear he's not respecting you. I was like that, till finally gf left me and now I have a gf and sure you can see someone is like attractive but then realise it's wrong to even think that cuz you have someone. If you wanna get nudes and talk to other girls or guys whatever , don't be in s relationship. You should be like "oh man this guy at work or at mall was super hot and came ask me number so gave him and now asking me to send him nudes so you did. Like he needs to realise what he got.
    You never know what you had till it's gone.

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