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Sep 26 2012, 12:58
  • Sniffles66 Newbie

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    Starting having anxiety about 2 years ago. Between work and a failing relationship I was in. Got out of the relationship and within 3 months was back in a relationship with a new girl I knew from high school. 2 Months into my new relationship found a text message conversation between my new gf and a guy she was seeing prior to me. Which was a bit graphic to say the least. Confronted her about it. Said it was nothing and that she's like his therapist. Never once said I'm sorry or came clean with anything. At one point actually said to me; that her past was none of my business. That she is she didn't want to be with me she wouldn't be with me. That she loved me with all her heart; and could see herself with me the rest of her life. We spend a lot of time together sleep over each other places and whatnot and have a great relationship. She's just very secretive about her past and what the situation was before me. Like I've gotten multiple stories of her past before me. But she seems to be a horrible liar; like most of her lies I can see straight through. At time I want to wash my hands of the situation and just walk away and tell her to go F*ck herself. Because it tends to be entirely too much bullshit. A close friend of mine told me that my insecurities with the past incident is what is causing my anxiety and to let it go and that's the only way I'm going to be able to move on with her. Which I agree... I just don't know how to overcome it.

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